{"id":102644,"date":"2023-11-30T19:45:10","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T18:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.africa-press.net\/nigeria\/uncategorized\/my-wife-bullies-me-divorce-seeking-man-tells-court"},"modified":"2023-11-30T22:20:33","modified_gmt":"2023-11-30T21:20:33","slug":"my-wife-bullies-me-divorce-seeking-man-tells-court","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.africa-press.net\/nigeria\/all-news\/my-wife-bullies-me-divorce-seeking-man-tells-court","title":{"rendered":"My wife bullies me \u2013 Divorce-seeking man tells court"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600\"><strong>Africa-Press &#8211; Nigeria. <\/strong><\/span>A divorce-seeking man, Mr Kazeem Yekini, on Thursday told a Mapo Grade A Customary Court in Ibadan, that his wife bullies and blackmails me.<\/p>\n<p>He pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage between him and his estranged wife, Opeyemi, saying the union had ruined his life.<\/p>\n<p>He said Opeyemi was in the habit of blackmailing him everywhere and causing untold damage to his reputation.<\/p>\n<p>Yekini alleged that his wife cast a spell on him, causing him untold hardship while at the same time promising to continue to blackmail him all around Ibadan.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs if these were not enough, she locks me up in a room, thus preventing me from going to my daily business.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe also seized my car keys and invited the `Amotekun\u2019 corps (the security network in the Southwest) to deal with me for no reason,\u2019\u2019 Yekini alleged.<\/p>\n<p>He told the court that neighbours and family members never attempted to intervene \u201cbecause they are afraid of her\u2019\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Opeyemi did not deny any of the allegations levelled against her under cross-examination.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she prayed the court to help her resolve the matter amicably.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is true that I have been fighting my husband without justification.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBefore he decided to come to court, however, I tried all I could to pacify him, but he refused to listen to my pleas for mercy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf he maintains his stand, I pray the court to grant me custody of the only child between us,\u2019\u2019 Opeyemi pleaded.<\/p>\n<p>In her judgment, the court\u2019s president, Mrs S.M. Akintayo noted that the marriage between the duo was not duly consummated and, hence, illegal.<\/p>\n<p>She pointed out that there was no evidence before the court that Yekini paid Opeyemi\u2019s bride price in their course of living together.<\/p>\n<p>She explained further that other essential things necessary for a valid marriage as stipulated in the Customary Law were not presented before Yekini and Opeyemi started to live as husband and wife.<\/p>\n<p>She concluded that there was no marriage to be dissolved in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Akintayo awarded custody of the only child produced by the union to Opeyemi and ordered Yekini to pay a monthly allowance of N10,000 for the child\u2019s upkeep.<\/p>\n<p>She ruled that the duo could go their separate ways but ordered them to maintain peace and order. 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