{"id":20210,"date":"2022-06-21T16:06:58","date_gmt":"2022-06-21T16:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.africa-press.net\/rwanda\/all-news\/no-disgrace-in-failure-key-life-lessons-from-powerful-women"},"modified":"2022-06-21T16:37:55","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T16:37:55","slug":"no-disgrace-in-failure-key-life-lessons-from-powerful-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.africa-press.net\/rwanda\/all-news\/no-disgrace-in-failure-key-life-lessons-from-powerful-women","title":{"rendered":"\u2018No disgrace in failure\u2019: Key life lessons from powerful women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600\"><strong>Africa-Press &#8211; Rwanda. <\/strong><\/span>Everyone, or at least most of us, go down memory lane and sometimes think of how we would have done things differently, or acknowledge good decisions we have made along the way.<\/p>\n<p>During a Commonwealth Women\u2019s Forum session with the theme \u201cWomen in Leadership: Beyond Numbers,\u201d in Kigali on Monday, June 20, inspiring women in leadership shared life lessons and what they would tell their younger selves, as shared below.<\/p>\n<p><b>Patricia Scotland QC, Secretary General of the Commonwealth<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I would say to my young self to not be afraid. Daddy and Mammy were right again. They said \u201cthere is no disgrace in failure. The only disgrace is in not having tried.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Try and try and try again. You never know what you can achieve if you try. And don\u2019t be frightened of being the first.<\/p>\n<p>I remember saying to my father, \u201cbut why does it have to be me?\u201d And he said, \u201cwhy not?\u201d And so, I have ended up being many firsts that I would never have dreamt possible.<\/p>\n<p>And the other thing I\u2019d say to my younger self is to celebrate your friends. Celebrate all those who are willing to walk with you. Know that as they walk, you too, will be able to walk.<\/p>\n<p>Never ever let go of God\u2019s hand, because through Him, all things are possible. You know those dreams you\u2019re dreaming, dream bigger, be bolder. Have the courage to know that you can do all the things that you aspire to do by His grace.<\/p>\n<p><b>Harriett Baldwin, MP- United Kingdom<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aim high. Don\u2019t let people tell you that you can\u2019t do things. It is so important to take opportunity education gives us and we follow our education through as fast and as far as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t listen to the low expectations that sometimes people will impose on you and your view of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that you will fail from time to time. There will be occasions where you don\u2019t succeed in your path. You will get knocked back along the way but pick yourself up, learn from those setbacks and set yourself further on your path, and focus on the things that really matter in terms of your journey.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t ask, you don\u2019t get! And so you just have to keep asking and eventually, you will get there.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cherie Blair, Founder and Chair of Omnia Strategy LLP<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I went as a barrister and at the end of my training; there was a choice between a male barrister and a female barrister. 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