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Africa-Press – Zambia. <\/strong><\/span>When is enough enough? My husband and I left Zambia 15 years ago.We were doing very well in Zambia and I had a good career. We agreed on staying here for 5yrs, it\u2019s now been 15yrs.I want to go back home, for my sanity. I miss my family, I miss my friends,I miss the food. I am financially reliant on him as he wanted me to be at home to take care of him and our child. Which to be honest has been a blessing.I do not lack financially and I am able to buy nice clothes and anything I need.However, I am bored to death, I am lonely and I am homesick. I want to go back home.<\/p>\n

My husband has a social life from his work environment that involves alot of travelling and meetings.I am just home all the time with few friends. We have discussed this extensively but he doesn\u2019t want to leave.I believe we can make it work in Zambia and our child will be able to grow around his cousins.(Due to complications in my pregnancy I will not be able to bear another child). If I leave my husband he will only get to see our child once or twice a year and I wouldn\u2019t want to deprive our child of his father.But I can\u2019t stay here anymore.Please help what should I do?<\/p>\n

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