Africa-Press – South-Africa. A programme to help boys and men who grew up around violence to stop the cycle, particularly at home, is already bearing fruit, the Western Cape MEC for Social Development, Sharna Fernandez, said on Tuesday.
“Our communities are soaked in trauma,” Fernandez told a social development committee meeting.
She said that after the “Break the Cycle” video, which launched the programme, was first shown at a child youth care centre, 32 boys stayed behind to talk.
Fernandez explained that the conversation about violence and trauma is usually about women, but men and boys also suffer abuse.
The video, which can be upsetting for those who grew up with violence and abuse, relates to viewers through the example of a child witnessing his father being verbally abusive to his mother and to him.
Seeing a parent do this could lead many children to repeat the behaviour as an adult.
Fernandez said:
“I think there are men who are abused, and we can’t be in denial about that.”
A video prepared for the campaign highlights the cycle of abuse in one man’s life, showing how the father berates the mother and son – and how the son later copies his father’s behaviour.
The tagline is: “Abused men are more likely to become abusive”, and the promotion page for the campaign links to a website with advice and helpline numbers.
It offers leadership programmes to men and boys seeking psycho-social help, family preservation support and fatherhood programmes.
It explains that abuse is not necessarily physical but can be emotional, financial, psychological and verbal.
When the programme was launched, the department said intergenerational abuse and sustained exposure to violence add to the complexity of gender-based violence (GBV).
The website set up to assist reads:
“A lot of children, particularly boys, never disclose abuse and, therefore, are never helped to address their trauma or to adequately express their emotions. Some of these boys grow up and repeat the cycle of abuse and violence.
“This is why it is important for boys and men to seek help as soon as they can.”
The committee heard that the province was struggling to keep up with the number of youths with “challenging behaviour” due to trauma in their environment.
The head of the department, Robert Macdonald, said this often emerged in children from traumatic backgrounds once they reached their teens.
In the meantime, the department is running 26 shelters for GBV survivors.
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